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Sunday, November 25, 2018

Rage Becomes Her - gender roles



Every woman knows these things. 
Every man needs to read this book: Rage Becomes Her

This is so vivid for me. I didn't see myself in the supporting role in ET, Flight of the Navigator or Neverending Story. Being a tomboy, which is kind of a stupid name for it, I was forced to grapple with things like what's wrong with me? and do I really want to be a boy? As it turned out, I did want to be a girl, I just didn't understand why adults felt uncomfortable with everything I liked. I just chalked it up to adults being adults - they did so much that I felt had larger meaning but I was at a loss for understanding anything but the immediate and tangible. I still don't understand their discomfort. I did eventually, slowly, painfully, conform mostly to gender norms, but I hope that didn't entirely crush my spirit. I wish I still had a child's obliviousness sometimes so that I could press on with what I wanted instead of giving others what they expect from me.

There is a picture of me at age 5 or 6 wearing a pink frilly dress and clunky brown ET shoes, representing a concession. My mom was extremely disappointed that I wouldn't wear dresses to school like all the other girls. I unsuccessfully fought it every Sunday. She was so happy to have a girl as her first child so she could dress me up. I was thinking only that I couldn't play soccer, run and hang on the monkey bars if i wore those things, not about gender norms or anyone's expectations. That was before I learned not to stand up for myself, I guess... I was allowed to wear pants except to church, it just came with the baggage that i was making someone unhappy for reasons i couldn't comprehend. It seemed completely arbitrary to me, so I fought for the functional.

quote on girls' cultural irrelevance:
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/9465940-every-girl-learns-in-varying-degrees-to-filter-herself-through

quote on living in the cracks of a world made for men:
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/9576684-as-women-we-are-continuously-told-to-live-in-the


#YesAllWomen and the combat zone that is our life


Again, a truth mostly unrelated to the topic I came on here to highlight:




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Unladylike Episode 14: How to Shoot a Gun
https://unladylike.co/episodes/014/shoot-gun

In the first half of the podcast, they interview Dana of Trigger Warning, a Queer and Trans gun club in Atlanta and what she said struck me

At around 11 minutes, she talks about how the military's advice for going out during combat is the same advice we give girls and women about going out at all anywhere and about how that constant state of vigilance causes stress and messes with your head (after the quote, they talk stress).


"...what we tell our daughters and our sisters and our wives and our mothers to how to defend themselves and be aware of when they leave the house is the same mindset that we teach our soldiers to do when they go out on combat on patrols. And that's fucked up. When you go outside your house, pay attention to your surrounding at all times: head on a swivel. Be paying attention to your gut. Every place you go to judge whether that's a safe place to go. When people come to speak to you, be polite and respectful, but you always have to be thinking and preparing for if this dude freaks out and pulls a knife, what are you going to do."


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My listening to this podcast now ties in perfectly with the book I'm reading - Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly. It really puts a name and words to much of the female identifying experience - the rage of inequality, not being "allowed" to express it or being told we're lying, and the stress that results from the erasure and denial.

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/9567707-in-the-classroom-it-was-almost-certainly-the-case-that

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Tuesday, March 13, 2018

Educated by Tara Westover

I finished Educated in just a few days. I was reading two other books, but put them aside for a few days and blew through this one. I couldn't put it down.

It was brilliantly written and it's absolutely amazing to see someone go through everything she did, the violence and physical abuse, bad luck and bad choices of her parents and come out the other side not only just alive but succeeding and creating.

If you had a religious upbringing, as I did, you may find it hard to read for other reasons. It really hits at the core of those beliefs and makes you reexamine. One quote really hit me hard.


She's talking here about one of her brothers' regular abuse, both verbal (calling her names like whore) and physical in contrast to how another of her brothers made her feel:

Suddenly that worth felt conditional, like it could be taken or squandered. It was not inherent; it was bestowed. What was of worth was not me, but the veneer of constraints and observances that obscured me.


But this is really very likely a common feeling for women and maybe women "of faith" as I was. Purity and chastity are drilled into you at every opportunity. Don't wear spaghetti straps, they're immodest. Your skin might cause a brother to stumble (the implication being- and then, well, it's your fault). Don't go to dances, you aren't allowed to move your body that way or let boys touch you (again, your fault is implied). There's no real sex education, just DON'T. Until marriage. Godly men are supposed to marry a virgin, so don't have sex. Do they have to be a virgin? No one really cares, they are preparing to be providers, so any indiscretions we'll sweep under the rug. Girls who have sex though, they are marked, they have a past, they are impure. And you grew up with the story of how Adam and Eve sinned and they got tossed out of the garden and Adam paid by having to work for a living and Eve by pain in childbirth. So there you go, there's your family structure. Created flawed by God so he can punish you your entire earthly life. 

Add to this the doctrine that salvation is conditional (2Peter 2:10). It's a hot topic in the religious world. But I associated salvation and baptism with love an acceptance of my parents, peers and church - basically the sum of my little world. It's supposed to have implications in the next world after death, but it entirely defines your view and interactions on this planet as well. Be saved and enjoy love and acceptance of church family and blood family or don't and be considered a sinner, an object of pity and embarrassment only to be associated with if the mission is to bring you back.

What I learned was that my worth was entirely dependent upon my modesty, virginity and compliance with church beliefs. There's no room for inherent worth there. There's no unconditional love. On the contrary, I grew up hearing every other Sunday that other liberal churches taught TOO MUCH about God's love. We don't talk about the consequences of sin enough. We don't preach about hell enough. We should talk about the hard things, not just love and peace all the time. Too much love??? Who on earth gets too much love or hears too much about love? I wish I'd been brave enough to scream I NEED TO HEAR ABOUT LOVE. Instead, I listened to sermon after sermon about hell and disfellowshipping unbelievers in our midst and faithfulness and the consequences of failing, of false prophets coming to us in sheep's clothing. I worried incessantly about staying home sick, hoping that I wouldn't be accused of forsaking the assembly (Heb 10:25). I nervously read letters from the elders when they ejected a person from the congregation for some sin or another, knowing they could really mount a case against anyone and that person would be gone. How much or how little did one have to do to get one of these? Who knew. The elders are in charge and what they say is law. Don't breathe. 

I grew up knowing for certain that life is a balancing act and I was worth nothing inherently, my value was bestowed, as Westover observed. Bestowed by my creator? Sort of. Conditionally. If I was a faithful servant of God. Who judges that- my dad, the church elders, the church collectively? My worth is bestowed. I am defined by constraints I didn't choose- be "modest", don't dance, don't have sex, don't drink, don't be a liberal. Virginity, attending services three times a week, no instruments in worship- those are the things with value. As long as you value these things, you too can have value.









Sunday, January 7, 2018

Some book recommendations



January 2018
I made a list of some things I've read that I like. No one really asks me what I read, but here you go! 

Barack Obama's reading list here :) I'll admit I took some suggestions from him.

FICTION

Rula Jebreel
Miral

Susan Abulhawa
Mornings In Jenin
The Blue Between Sky and Water- haven't read yet

Elif Shafak
Bastard of Istanbul

Orhan Pamuk
*Museum of Innocence
Snow

Zoe Ferraris
Finding Nouf – series

Chinua Achebe
Things Fall Apart

Haruki Murakami
The Strange Library
*The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle
Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage
Norwegian Wood
After Dark

Kazuo Ishiguro
The Buried Giant
Never Let Me Go
Pale View of the Hills
*Artist of the Floating World
The Remains of the Day




John Irving
*A Prayer For Owen Meany
The World According to Garp

Barbara Kingsolver
*Poisonwood Bible

Monique Truong
Bitter In the Mouth   A girl who tastes words.

David Guterson
Snow Falling on Cedars

Umberto Eco
Island of the Day Before

Nabokov
Invitation to a Beheading
Lolita

Jack Butler 
Jujitsu For Christ

Halldor Laxness
Under the Glacier
Iceland’s Bell
Independent People

Flaubert
Madame Bovary


D.H. Lawrence
Lady Chatterley’s Lover

Albert Camus
The Stranger


Stanislaw Lem 

Cyberiad
Star Diaries
Solaris



Henry Miller 
Tropic of Cancer
Tropic of Capricorn

Margaret Atwood 

The Handmaid’s Tale
Blind Assassin

Karel Ĉapek 

War with the Newts

Philip Roth 

Portnoy’s Complaint
American Pastoral

I Married A Communist - haven't read yet, how did I miss that?
Human Stain

Thomas Pynchon 

Gravity’s Rainbow


Fyodor Dostoevsky 
Crime and Punishment

Lebov Tolstoy 

Anna Karenina

Voltaire 

Candide

Kurt Vonnegut

Breakfast of Champions
Deadeye Dick
2BR02B
Player Piano
Cat’s Cradle
Slaughterhouse-five

Galapagos

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NATURAL HISTORY, SCIENCE, RELIGION

Mark Kurlansky   Cod


Tom Holland   Rubicon


Bart Ehrman   Jesus Interrupted, Misquoting Jesus, Jesus Before the Gospels, How Jesus Became God


Edward Abbey   Desert Solitaire


Raja Shehadeh   Palestinian Walks: Forays into a Vanishing Landscape


Richard Dawkins   The God Delusion


Christopher Hitchens   God is Not Great


Vonnegut    A Man Without A Country, Letters



Ernst Mayr One Long Argument


Stephen J. Gould 
Mismeasure of Man
Full House
Bully For Brontosaurus
Wonderful Life


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Rupi Kaur

Milk and Honey

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RACE

Michelle Alexander
The New Jim Crow

Timothy Tyson
Blood Done Sign My Name
The Blood of Emmett Till

Trevor Noah
Born a Crime

Bryan Shih
The Black Panthers: Portraits from an Unfinished Revolution

Ta-Nehisi Coates
Between the World and Me

Angela Y. Davis
Freedom Is A Constant Struggle


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PROGRESSIVE MOVEMENT, SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE?

Susan Jacoby

Freethinkers


Steven Waldman
Founding Faith: Providence, Politics, and the Birth of Religious Freedom in America


Jeff Sharlet
The Family: The Secret Fundamentalism at the Heart of American Power


Amy Goodman
Democracy Now!: Twenty Years Covering the Movements Changing America


Naomi Klein
Fences and Windows: Dispatches from the Front Lines of the Globalization Debate



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FEMINISM 

Lynn Povich
The Good Girls Revolt: How the Women of Newsweek Sued their Bosses and Changed the Workplace


Read together- two views of the foundation of the feminist movement
My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinem
In Our Time by Susan Brownmiller


Irin Carmon
Notorious RBG


Jilll Lapore
The Secret History of Wonder Woman

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

We Should All Be Feminists

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MEMOIR AND JOURNALISM

Loree Rackstraw 

Love As Always, Kurt (love correspondence with Vonnegut)

Philip Weiss

American Taboo

Jon Krakauer

Three Cups of Deceit: How Greg Mortenson, Humanitarian Hero, Lost His Way


Neil White
In the Sanctuary of Outcasts


J.H. Hatfield
Fortunate Son: George W. Bush and the Making of an American President

Najla Said
Looking for Palestine: Growing Up Confused in an Arab-American Family

Laura Ling
Somewhere Inside: One Sister's Captivity in North Korea and the Other's Fight to Bring Her Home


Roxana Saberi
Between Two Worlds: My Life and Captivity in Iran


Jennifer Steil
The Woman Who Fell From the Sky Woman teaching journalism in Yemen.


Jillian Lauren
Some Girls: My Life In a Harem


Kim Barnes
In the Kingdom of Men


Blair Tindall
Mozart in the Jungle: Sex, Drugs, and Classical Music


Azar Nafisi
Reading Lolita in Tehran


Ghada Karmi
In Search of Fatima
Married to Another Man


Read these two together, they have different memory/ rendering of certain historical events:
Jehan Sedat  My Hope For Peace
and
Queen Nur  Leap of Faith


Diane Rehm !!!
Finding My Voice

Helen Thomas

Thanks for the Memories Mr. President


Victor Ostrovsky
By Way of Deception: The Making of a Mossad Officer


Firoozeh Dumas
Funny in Farsi


Azadeh Moaveni
Lipstick Jihad

Kai Bird

Crossing Mandelbaum Gate: Coming of Age Between the Arabs & Israelis 1956-78

Emma Williams

It's Easier To Reach Heaven Than The End Of The Street: A Jerusalem Memoir


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ABOUT THE OCCUPATION OF PALESTINE

Illan Pappe

Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine

Jean Zaru

Occupied with Nonviolence: A Palestinian Woman Speaks


Suad Amiry- you'll forget you're reading nonfiction and about horrible tragedy
Sharon and My Mother in Law


Raja Shehadeh
When the Birds Stopped Singing: Life in Ramallah Under Siege
Strangers In the House: Coming of Age in Occupied Palestine


Omar Barghouti
Boycott, Divestment, Sanctions: The Global Struggle for Palestinian Rights


Edward Said
Blaming the Victims: Spurious Scholarship and the Palestinian Question


Paul Findley – former Senator, helped me understand some of the problem early on
Silent No More: Confronting America's False Images of Islam


Seymour M. Hersh
The Samson Option About Israel and nukes. Old but good.


Jimmy Carter
Palestine: Peace Not Apartheid Maybe not the best work on the conflict, but good to hear something other than Israel worship from an American leader.


Sandy Tolan
The Lemon Tree

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TO READ:


Edward Abbey – fiction

Salinger
Gogol
James Baldwin
Flannery O’Connor
William Manchester A World Lit Only By Fire
Mary Beard SPQR
Sarah Jaffe
Mychal Denzel Smith 





Thursday, February 16, 2017

Reading in 2016/2017- survival, education, openness




BOOKS BY PEOPLE OF COLOR ARE DISPROPORTIONATELY LIKELY TO BE BANNEDhttps://bitchmedia.org/post/diverse-books-authors-top-annual-list-of-most-challenged-titles?platform=hootsuite


Good Girls Revolt Reading List
http://bookriot.com/2016/12/06/good-girls-revolt-reading-list/


Insane Clown President: Matt Taibbi Chronicles Election of "Billionaire Hedonist" Donald Trump


So You Want to Read Dystopian Fiction: Here’s Where to Start


6 Books That Have Donald Trump to Thank for Their Sales Spike


Handmaid's Tale Trailer


Freethinkers


My Life On the Road


The beautiful Icelandic tradition of giving books on Christmas Eve


President Obama says novels taught him how to be a citizen


Political Divide


Brave New World, NOT 1984!


Obama's recommendations:







339 books referenced in Gilmore Girls



For a helpful book for parents that explores this issue in depth and offers practical strategies to foster girls' assertiveness, resilience, and integrity, check out "The Curse of the Good Girl: Raising Authentic Girls with Courage and Confidence" at http://www.amightygirl.com/the-curse-of-the-good-girl 

Friday, April 13, 2012

Married to Another Man

by Ghada Karmi

I did actually read this just after Pappe's The Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine. They are very similar, but from slightly different perspectives. Pappe gives a lot of background on the Israeli failings and Karmi gives more background on Palestinians that is typically known or acknowledged.

Karmi discusses Arab peace overtures that are often overlooked or totally dismissed. She also touches on the issue of connection or association (or lack thereof) between Israelites of the Bible and Jews of today. A very interesting part of the book was the discussion of the various peace efforts- we rarely heard what Arabs offered or thought, so it was fascinating to read something other than the US/Israel filtered news. Finally, the thing that drew me in was the promised discussion of a one state solution.


One thing that I vaguely remember and couldn't find when I went back to look for it in the book was that Soviet Christians were let into Israel as Jews. That would be interesting to find more about. I knew about them going to remote areas in Peru and things and converting people to bring into the country to "combat the demographic threat".

The vicious cycle was alluded to- The US calls Israel a strategic interest in the region, but if Israel weren't there or tried to integrate, those problems the US deals with wouldn't be there.

We are conditioned to assume that Palestinians won't stop terror, won't come the the peace table, and Israel has no partner for peace and that's why negotiations stall and the conflict isn't solved. This book can help you understand the whole picture and why things tend to stall.

At the beginning of chapter 7, she lays out all the advantages of two states versus two that I have listed in the past about settlers not having to go anywhere and refugees and Jewish immigrants being able to all be citizens, everyone has access to holy sites, everyone has freedom of movement, etc. I really hadn't thought much about the type to state, but she really goes into detail on different one state models, which was very interesting.

A binational state would imply some degree of separation. This would apparently be more palatable, but she also suggests it could be a phase on the road to a secular democracy (one person-one vote). I know very little of the Belgian, Czech and Swiss models, but it is interesting how they blend these on state models to fit the needs of their population.

Palestinians have advocated for one state before the renewed push of the 90s or 2000s. At that time, Israel accused them of trying to commit genocide or the equivalent when Palestinians should have been commended (by the international community) for wanting to share versus desiring a fair solution where the invaders/colonizers were sent packing. I myself have said something like this. I like this Karmi :)

The Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine by Ilan Pappe

The Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine by Ilan Pappe

See also:
Bab al Shams Elias Khoury- epic novel about Nakba
Possibly called Gate of the Sun?

This is a fascinating, but not necessarily easy read. Everything Israel has said Palestinians have done or wanted that is evil and immoral, Israel has actually done to the Palestinians. It's kind of an eye opener. I have always heard the counter claims to the Israeli myths or standard line, but I honestly didn't know what was true or not, so I took it with a grain of salt... but this book makes one take a hard look at what many people consider to be Palestinian propaganda--you'd be surprised how much of it is in fact true.

Americans maybe won't believe Pappe, or will call him a self hating Jew or a traitor, but he dispels Israel's founding myths (of victimhood especially) and leaves no doubt that Israel was and is engaged in ethnic cleansing and has even succeeded in cleansing history. The proof of the latter you sill find in talking to Israelis and Americans about the likelihood that ethnic cleansing or war crimes were committed by Israel in it's founding or currently. The proof of the former is apparently readily available in diaries and other historical records, yet everyone seems to ignore these. With operations named Broom and Scissors and your ethnic cleansing operations are referred to like tihur (cleansing), biur (as in get rid of the leavening agents for Passover) and nikkuy (and cleaning), the intent is obvious. Co-existence and peace were never really in the plan.

The first similarity that struck me between Israel's past and present crimes was how the leaders told one story of a second Holocaust and existential threats to the public and another story, one of knowledge of a superior military might and confidence was written in diaries, correspondence between leaders and private meetings. It essentially does the same today with complete success with the "Palestinians want to push Israel into the sea" myth and reference to it's offensive moves as retaliation.

There is apparently a pervasive Israeli history myth that April 1948 was a turning point in the so called "war" where Israeli troops switched from defense to offense after a near annihilation. In reality, Dec 1947- end of March 1948 saw the completion of the first stage of Plan Dalet and the attacks on Palestinians were more widespread than before.

It is commonly said that the Hagana was the regular army and wasn't privy to any ethnic cleansing- that was the splinter groups of the Irgun and Stern Gang who differed with the Hagana. This is to enforce the myth of "most moral army in the world". That's only part true- in the beginning. At the start, the Irgun would go off and do more than requested (attack rather than retaliate for a small offense or get additional villages not on the list) and maybe there would be an apology, but later it would be included in the Hagana's list of victories, so there was approval after the fact. The more extreme methods were even adopted by the Hagana and ethnic cleansing was spoken of openly as they encountered less resistance and the British left and Jordanians neutralized.

The methods haven't changed over the years either. Recently, settlers have been caught poisoning the water supply and there are known issues with the supposedly shared water supply getting mostly diverted to Israel and the settlements. In Acre and Gaza in 1948, they began that method. (p100)

Israel commonly contends that Palestinians left their land on their own. Pappe notes that the Hagana and other groups would blare such things from loudspeakers as "surrender or commit suicide" and "we will destroy you to the last man". With this and rumors of massacres, summary executions and waves of refugees/witnesses passing through various towns, I don't know how one could really call this a voluntary move. One of so many lies.

Another common Israeli myth is that is that Palestinians want to (or can) push Jews into the sea. What is tragic is that Israelis stole this, too. You see, in an effort to escape the massacres and "clearing" operations of the time, Palestinians were actually pushed into the sea and drowned by Hagana and other forces who would close in on 3 flanks and leave only one way open (when they chose to let people live). The population of 50,000 (plus refugees from other cleansed areas) tried to escape by the only route left open under heavy fire in small fishing boats.

One of many reasons Israel charged ahead with ethnic cleansing unchecked was that it decided to subdivide the Palestinian portion of the "spoils" and "share" with Jordan. That reminded me of the peace treaties Israel has made with Jordan and Egypt more recently than 1948. On both occasions they took out the main military force that could possibly match Israel. Then as now they felt free to broadcast inflammatory rhetoric, discuss transfer of Palestinians openly and threaten countries with military action with no adverse consequences whatsoever.

p111
Nasr-al-Din massacre near Tiberias
Tirat Haifa near Haifa
Ayn al-Zaytoun near Safad

p136
Tantura massacre- large city, 230 dead. They simply rounded up Palestinians and shot them dead because a soldier said lost a brother, cousin, etc. That is what we would call terrorism today. That's justice Israeli style- do unto others as is your whim today and others must abide by laws and international standards. The same double standard exists today.

p156
Count Folk Bernadotte stands out as one UN emmisary who stood up for justice. He insisted on the Palestinians right to return under international law and for Palestine to be re-divided more fairly. Israel initially agreed to let him mediate because he helped many Jews under the Nazis; when he tried to do the same for Palestinians, Israel assassinated him. Justice, Israeli style.

p162 Another bit of sad irony is that the peace camp took care of some old Arab houses surviving from ethnically cleansed villages, but instead of allowing Palestinians back or advocating for justice, they made an artists' colony out of them.

p196 Dawaymeh massacre was worse than the famous Deir Yassin and worst one until 1956 Kfar Qassim. Tantura, Safsaf, Sa'sa also had large numbers of atrocities. One observation I had here was that Jordan often gave Palestinians' land to Israel for peace and Israel kept cleansing it of Palestinians. A common Israeli refrain has been that land for peace doesn't work. I wonder if this is how it knows?

p202 The two realities- the same then and now. This really stuck with me:
Yisca Shadin's situation was given as a case in point for two reasons because people indicted for crimes against Palestinians aren't brought to justice and remain in power to afflict them. (Example: In 2000, Israeli police killed 13 Palestinians.)

p221 Several myths were created as Israeli towns were built on freshly removed rubble of Arab homes. This rubble, by the way was cleared by Arabs in labor camps. I was surprised to learn Jews employed this tactic. Again I am reminded that "never again" must not be inclusive... The myth of Israeli concern for the environment was spawned while planting on top of Arab villages and gardens. The popular "making the desert bloom" myth was also born while building on top of destroyed mosques, demolished architectural sites.

Near the end, Pappe tells how peace depends on recognition of 1948 and Israel's block of this and peace. He also offers insight into so-called peace negotiations like Oslo and the infamous Gaza pullout, how these are a way to sidestep the refugee issue, while continuing ethnic cleansing.

The last chapters offered some hope and said what many know, that the problem isn't Judaism, it is Zionism.




Monday, January 30, 2012

Nothing to Lose But Your Life: An 18 Hour Journey with Murad


Nothing to Lose But Your Life: An 18 Hour Journey with Murad
by Suad Amiry


I read Amiry's "Sharon and My Mother-in-law" first and loved the mix of explaining the Palestinian situation and humor and resilience. The first part of this one didn't hook me like that book, but the second part more than made up for it.

In chapter 10, she realizes they have been in the West Bank all this time (they are about to cross at The Wall) and the dangers, fear of arrest, running, bullets, hiding, etc happened on what is supposedly their own turf. Even for Amiry, who knows about things like this, the shock is palpable.

Chapters 11 and 12 struck me as out of place at first, but after some thought, they capture the situation perfectly. Chapter 11 is a fable or a few fables and 12 is about The Wall and a particular graffiti artist. I didn't realize at first that most of these images are actual Banksy "paintings" on the Wall; I only had seen a few in pictures. This chapter, like the art, is profound.

In chapter 14, this quote was great:
"I don't know what it is about Palestinians; they all believe they can pass for an Israeli, regardless of how typically Arab they look, the second they put on sunglasses."

It comes amid the various adjustments the workers are making to their appearance as they prepare to "blend" in with Jewish Israelis. I was aware of the plight of Palestinian workers, but not so much with this aspect. Very interesting.

Last sentence of chapter 14: 
"Only then did I realise that for me, and many others, Israel was virtual. For Murad, Israel was 'home.' Israel was a reality; a harsh reality."

At a cafe (deciding whether or not to continue), she defines the ultimate love-hate relationship, being out of ones' skin, out of place and history as being in her homeland Palestine.

Nearing the decision to quit the search for work for the day and distance themselves from the actual workers who they have slowed down some, they rest in a park and she tells a bit about what an Israeli park actually is- a peaceful green space that, by contrast, was taken by force from Arab villagers. For instance, most Palestinians are referring to Petah Tikvah as Mlabbis, it's original name.

This several pages long daydream about Mlabbis/ Petah Tikvah is brilliant. I wonder if she knew or researched the history, heard bits from Murad, or simply recounted the familiar 1948 Palestine or Nakba memory shared by many people and villages and retold by more.

In chapter 16, she talks about missing the Tel-Aviv (Lod) airport and the firman Sharon issued that no Palestinian from the West Bank or Gaza could use this airport. Also on this portion of the bus ride she remembers various Palestinian villages while looking for the rubble.

At the end, she takes off her worker's clothes and steps back into her life and reflects on the situation- real risks and dangers- that they face every day just to get a day's work. And the author's note! It is an article she reads the day she gets home about a worker getting shot doing what she just did.

Friday, November 11, 2011

Reading Lolita in Tehran

So I'm reading Reading Lolita in Tehran. It reminds me of separation of church and state rants I've done on the blog in some ways.

I had these thoughts while reading the first part of the book. She goes into some description of Iran and compares it with her life abroad. The recent republican debates, Eid stamp hysteria emails, sharia law hysteria, Muslim hearings in Congress, etc have also been in the background of my thoughts on church and state and extremes lately.

Voting according to religion is good, but legislating it is often not- be careful what you wish for- we may end up living up in a Christian version of Iran. Imagine if baptism was the law or baptized individuals received rights others didn't get. The state loses and religion loses. We need to vote our conscience; that is our right and duty. When we start to impose our (or certain) religious rules on others, it becomes a problem. Not only have we taken away their right to work things out for themselves, but it may very well backfire on us. We start with the good intention of shielding children and ourselves from immorality and then the balance of power shifts and suddenly others are telling us how to practice our religion and what's moral and who we can and cannot hire as a preacher (for example).

There is a bit of discussion on the veil in Iran in the book. Before the revolution when you could wear colors and read fiction and laugh in public, the veil was a symbol of a choice. When it became law, the power of the symbol was lost, though the intent of the law was no doubt a moral one. The veil changed from being a personal, religious symbol to one of oppression in a lot of ways.

Sorry- just getting a lot of hits on my Muslim stamp post and listening to the republican candidates and debate highlights (sharia law in the US?!) ...



And another thing occurred to me- about page 209. A thought about the Bush administration. Not to make a direct comparison between Bush and Iran or anything. (Seriously!) She spoke of a mood of resignation and tiredness with all of the bombings and interruptions of life (Iran-Iraq war) when they were forced to hear military marches, news of a "victory", or mourn a "martyr." And then she talks about the complete opposite attitudes of people in the street with anti-war sentiments and the government droning on- "the regime's ideal continued the play itself out undeterred." This sentence reminded me so much of the voices (many experts and former US officials) of doubt about Iraq's possession of WMD, yellowcake and Africa, link to 9/11, etc and the Bush administration's smug superiority when Bush, Cheney or the others would continue to repeat things (Bush doctrine, mushroom cloud, hit them there rather than here, Iraq has WMD, Iraq is linked to 9/11) with the same smug certainty when they were first only suspected as false (by liberals generally-and me, though I hadn't decided what I was at that point but plenty of people told me what I was...) as when they were increasingly known to all as false and maybe lies. I'm not calling Bush a dictator or anything, but there was that same distance so vast it was unbelievable and almost funny (tragic) between the public and the government in both cases. That sentence really struck me as extraordinarily applicable- especially Cheney's certainty and the way he quoted something picked up by the Times, leaked by the administration itself. Bush was always concerned about his legacy and history;  he can rest assured that he'll go down in it all right. Legendary.

Oddly enough , a recent event ties in somewhat. It's not the government, but still odd:
Did a Marriot Vacation Club survey and was asked a series of questions about vacations. Also included was a question about believing in 7 day creation and prayer in schools (?). We aren't members, but took a deal that offered a low rate in return to listening to the presentation and offer to do this timeshare thing, etc. I have no problem with discussing these things, but what is the motivation, here? It's none of their business. I am immediately suspicious and have less of a desire to join, not that it was high to begin with! This kind of gets at what I was saying- what if questions like these become routine for everything- businesses you want to enter and buy from, school admission, traffic stops.